Why Did the Affair Happen?

Why Did the Affair Happen?

Why Happy People CheatA good marriage is no guarantee against infidelity. Infidelity creates waves of disorientation in a marriage. The betrayed spouse may describe the aftermath as an earthquake that shakes them to their core, tears them down, and leaves them with a...
How Relational Health Correlates with Happiness

How Relational Health Correlates with Happiness

What’s the #1 thing to change to be happier? A top happiness researcher weighs inNPR’s Ari Shapiro speaks with Dr. Robert Waldinger, one of the authors of The Good Life: Lessons from the world’s longest scientific study of happiness. “The number one thing to change to...
The Anxiety After an Affair

The Anxiety After an Affair

I see many couples in the midst of overcoming infidelity in their relationship. Couples seek therapy in hopes of rebuilding their trust and connection to regain what they once had. In these circumstances, I have consistently witnessed a specific factor that prevents...
Talking about Sex in Your Marriage

Talking about Sex in Your Marriage

The one thing that can improve your sex life, according to this coupleVanessa and Xander Marin set out to write the definitive “how to” book on talking about sex with a consenting partner. The authors of “Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love...