Effective Listening

Effective Listening

Communication requires one person to talk and, equally important, the other to listen. Our first thought, when we think about communication, may be to consider the speaker’s ability to convey ideas effectively. What we often forget is that without a listener the...
Crisis of Infidelity

Crisis of Infidelity

One of the largest threats to a committed relationship is the betrayal of sexual infidelity. This is not an uncommon event. Conservative estimates suggest that about a quarter of women, and a third of men, have violated their marital commitment to their partners....
Encourage, Don’t Praise Your Child

Encourage, Don’t Praise Your Child

We parents want to give or children high self-esteem and teach them to distinguish right from wrong. We’ve accepted the fact that too much criticism and punishment can breed resentment and is less effective than rewards. Our parenting culture now leans toward becoming...
Natural and Logical Consequences

Natural and Logical Consequences

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] The Goal of using consequences is to help our children learn self-discipline by allowing them to make choices and to be responsible for the results of those choices. How consequences are different from punishment: Consequences are...